by David Phelps

“Do not wait for leaders; do it alone, person to person.” – Mother Teresa

June, 2022

When our Pastor gave a recent message about waiting, I could relate. Waiting is a part of life but that doesn’t mean it’s not frustrating sometimes. When my wife, Charlotte, and I were trying to have a child, we prayed constantly but it still took years. And after she became pregnant, there was still genetic testing to be done. While Charlotte was praising God for this everyday miracle, I confess that I couldn’t, not until the child received a “clean bill of health.” To me, it was as if God had only given us half an answer to prayer. When the test results finally came back and showed that we could expect a normal, healthy child, I breathed a figurative sigh of relief and I was finally able to thank God, as Charlotte had already been doing for some weeks.

God’s people are no strangers to waiting or to receiving what seems to be half an answer to prayer. After the people of Israel left Egypt, they saw Pharaoh and his army pursuing them (Exod. 14:10). They cried out to Moses, “‘Why did you bring us out here to die in the wilderness? Weren’t there enough graves for us in Egypt?’” (vs. 11b New Living Translation). Just as it seemed that hope was at hand, they found themselves in jeopardy again. But Moses said to them, “‘Don’t be afraid. Just stand still and watch the LORD rescue you today.’” (Exod. 14:13b NLT). And of course, you know the rest (vs. 15-31).

But even after Moses led them across the Red Sea, it was another forty years before they reached the Promised Land (Josh. 5:6). And many of the original Israelites never got there at all. Even Moses himself only received a glimpse of God’s promise but wasn’t allowed to enter it (Deut. 34:4).

There are about 400 “silent years” between the end of the Old Testament and the time of Jesus. By that time, the Israelites had been waiting for a very long time for a “Messiah.” Since the “Messiah” was supposed to be a descendant of King David, who was both a ruler and a military leader (2 Sam. 7:12-16), they expected someone like him. Instead, they got a rabbi who taught in riddles, who must have seemed like half a promise kept. And when he died at the hands of the Roman authorities, the promise must have seemed especially hollow. After he rose from the dead, the apostles asked him, “‘Lord, has the time come for you to free Israel and restore our kingdom?’” (Acts 1:6 NLT). But he replied, “‘. . . those dates and times, . . . are not for you to know.’” (vs. 7b NLT). After everything, he still apparently hadn’t fulfilled the age-old promise.

Given this perspective, I realize that my own frustrations are insignificant compared to the experiences of many others. As I write this, the families and loved ones of nineteen young students and two teachers in a small Texas town are waiting for closure, waiting for answers. The students and teachers were the victims of senseless violence at the hands of a lone teenaged gunman. The rest of our nation waits with them, offering “thoughts and prayers,” hoping something will change and doubting that it will. People of faith wonder when—and if—the change for which they pray will happen. Meanwhile, it seems as if those left behind haven’t even received half an answer to their prayers.

It can feel frustrating to receive what seems like half a promise, half a blessing, half an answer to prayer. Think of how you would feel if you received half your paycheck or half your dinner. You might wonder why God only “delivered half the goods.” Sometimes we only realize in hindsight that God did answer our prayer.

But when we’re going through an experience, we don’t have hindsight. There’s an old joke that, “An optimist is someone who tells you to cheer up when things are going his way.” It’s how we respond when things aren’t going our way that our faith—or lack of faith—shows. Although Jesus didn’t answer the apostles’ question, he did promise “‘. . . power when the Holy Spirit comes upon you.’” (vs. 8). Power to be witnesses. We often think of our “witness” as telling “what God has done for me.” But a more important part can be “what God is going to do for me.” If we can say honestly and with confidence that “I don’t know how this is going to turn out but I’m going to trust God, and you can too,” it can be the most effective witness we can give.


“He comforts us in all our troubles so that we can comfort others. When they are troubled, we will be able to give them the same comfort God has given us.” (2 Cor. 1:4 NLT.)



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